Stray commenting…
Anyway, this comment was posted on Friday, July 23, 2004's blog about going back to work at blogging about being hit by a car in Poland. In that post, which was from really early on, I took a stab at talking again about the Polish traffic incident, rehashing the moment when he hit me and using some foul language and some rather lofty metaphors:
- The guys name by the way was Tomas Zaremba by the way and may Satan spend a thousand years redefining the size of his rear aperture.
- C'mon dude, you really had no reason to punch the guy. I think in this case you could have made a better decision. The finger would have done just fine.
But still I have been here and I have been typo-ing away and to have done these 490-odd posts and the 242 newsapers and all of those gapingly stupid Polish scandal stories, I guess I really just don't want anyone just up and coming to me and saying that I should have simply given the guy the finger instead of hitting him. What did I say in the comment?
- Don't hit him? Dude, I can just see him at home later talking to his wife, his head in his hands and tears in his eyes:
"Honey, I tried to run down this biker today and when I missed him and he lived, he gave me the finger. I don't think I can live with the image of that yet-still-alive bicyclist showing his disdain for me and my irresponsible driving habits by raising his middle finger. I am a bad person and forever will change my ways…"
Get real. I should have hit him harder.
- The story is my ex has waited 4 and a half year to bring me to court to get alimony checks on a 50-50 time share of our 5 yr old kid.
If you analyze the video it clearly explain the problem.
The 26 of September 2007 is the day in court where a judge will say I owe hundreds $ a month for a unfair child law on 50-50.
Since I will not pay because the law is badly made I will be seized on my salary so I will quit my job so they cant take my money.
After that they will take my kid away because of that. Some might say just pay the dame alimony checks. But acting in such a way it is with out a spine in an unfair un just and lying law.
Woman can do the same just like men in raising money and reducing expenses etc... So there is no way it is a good law to steel from men to give to woman.
I'd take my kid all the time and pay everything but she s out for my money. Money I don't care but the fact that other good dads get unjustly stole their money for a woman who just don't want to make sacrifices that bothers me it is on that I protest plus more details.
Ask a French person to translate word for word and try to analyze the intention behind it!
Misogyny?
I myself do not nessasarily agree with this. Male female relationships are the essence of humanity- the real reason d'être. And basically as these interactions are what make more people, there should be more respect given. I think it is a really big deal when marital relationships start to come unglued and there are children involved. Unless there is serious and genuine abuse, removing the male/female dynamic is probably very harmful. Yes, children are resilient and yes, it is more than possible for a child to grow up with only one parent. But the point is that it is better with two and it is best when both of those two concentrate their efforts into actually doing the job of raising the kids rather than fighter over them or demanding to make singular decisions regarding their futures.
Almost all of the commentators have had breakups or intrigues in their relationships and as we can see with Mr. Laport's u-tube, the results of these intrigues can be enough to drive a person bananas.
And of course we all know what a minefield this subject can be. As a for instance, over the last few weeks I have been trying to find myself some work teaching English here and the going has been very difficult and at one juncture I even had a female bureaucrat throw the misogyny argument in my face. The situation she was referring to was that I had become angry after I had been given one director's word that there would be employment but then his replacement, who happened to be a woman, refused to acknowledge his promise. This second director, who was also a woman, tried to tell me that the reason I did not get the job is that I showed disdain for the director's power and authority and implied that the reason for this was because she was a woman.
Now what this second director failed to understand is that I have contemptuous disdain for empty-shirt bureaucrats of any sex. For sure though what this was all about was simply power. This is Belarus and we have a president for life and so this means that this is how business is done throughout the country. In this case, it means that if a person should happen to take over a job with any level of authority to it, the first thing one needs to do is to make sure of it that you kiss their ass with alacrity; this is what is expected. That I am simply no good at this in general probably never occurred to them. Or, as I am American, they probably just decided to take a little pleasure out of it for themselves. Obviously everyone here has seen the Godfather.
So what is the answer here?
But for sure these last few posts were not misogyny and saying that they were just because they represented a male perspective was as unfair as what happened to a lot of our commentors. It was just a couple of stories about a group of guys trying to find some peace in the world so they could do what has been asked of them by nature, by G-d, by providence or even by the women they took up with. I think the only real problem here was that while the female side of the argument was screaming freedom and money and power, this male part of the contract was not thought of as being worthy enough of respect to even be considdered.
- Title 18, United States Code, Section 1204, makes it an offense to remove a child who has been in the United States from the United States with the intent to obstruct the lawful exercise of parental rights. Such an offense is punishable by a fine under Title 18, imprisonment for not more than three years, or both. States have similar laws...
More soon…
4 Comments:
Adam, everyone agrees you got the shaft in Poland. But how come you never describe what would have happenned to you if the same scenario played out in America, with an American off duty cop, and in an America court? You would have been mugged by about 5-20 hoodlums carrying badges, you would have done 1-4 years for assaulting a "police officer", you would have received a "felony conviction". Your subsequent life would have all the complications of "life as a felon". If you needed some type of "bonding" as a bicycle messenger in NYC, that might have been affected by you "felony" conviction. Every country from Israel to Canada to Scotland would scrutinize you at every port of entry because of your "felony" for "attacking a police officer". 80% of the Assholes in America would automaticly determine you "got what you deserved", and for the rest of your life anytime you ever had any interaction with the police there would be 5 - 10 guys trying to verbally bait you into getting pepper sprayed, stunned, mugged and jailed, again.
Mike
Watch the language Mike. And actually, I think you better heed your own advice and be a bit kinder to the local constabulary yourself. If things are as bad as you say, you are the one who needs to be watching what you say in general.
The Poles are a corrupt country and that has not changed one iota. And again, hitting the cop was not even a crime. The bike incident was the bike incident and the only problem there was that the driver of the car decided that hitting me with the car he was driving would not in any way be a bad thing for him or his life. This was the start of the problem. That he followed through as he did and got the whole of the judicial system to follow him (he must have been more charismatic than I thought), this was where the real bullshit came from.
If you smacked someone in the U.S. that just hit you, I am sure they also would have arrested you. You would have been sued also. I know of no law that says it is okay to take the law "punishment" in ones own hands. I love your blog but can't you see the point? Another thing I learned living in Eastern Europe is you better know the connections of people before anything rash is contemplated. If you had hit the President's son you might not be alive. If your wife had hit another lady with a car and the other lady smacked her, is that right?
Actually, there was and is no law against one man hitting another. There are laws however against being assaulted by a vehicle, perjury, baring false witness, slander and of course, corruption. But regardless of this, hitting the guy has never been the point because I was not tried for that. What I was actually tried for was destroying his car with my bare hands without provocation, a charge that never had even the slightest basis in reality. The guy who had hit me with his car followed me to the police because he was afraid of my telling them what he had done and the conspiracy was knowingly (and happily) upheld by every aspect of the legal system, both defense and prosecution. The story is about that year, or even arguably the five years they took from me and who they were (are). And this would also include the American side who were also a part of this.
So it's never been about hitting a motorist for running a biker down with a car- something I am actually rather proud of. It's about corruption and the extent in which it exists. It is just a picture of our world from an insider's perspective and frankly, I am rather proud of having created this as well.
And next time, please show some pride of your own and sign your letters.
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